Keeping the fun alive and well in the bedroom is up to both partners. As we age our sexual urges change, part of the physical well being suffocates. Men and women have a fantasy or two, find out what there desires are, and make it happen. You must already know what is liked, what really pushes buttons, expand on that. It means doing something that would did not do before. Make sure you have adequate free time on your hands. Environment is crucial. Do not let your bedroom become just a place to sleep. Turn it into a pleasure zone. If your love life has become to regular, a complete makeover can help. Open your mind with things like a duvet covers, and extra pillows, scented candles, soft lighting, a table top fountain, fresh flowers,and lots of differently shaped mirrors, at different angles and levels around the room, this can make you room seem even bigger, are just a few items to consider.